Unwinding Heart

Hellooooo, people. Today, I've a very important topic to speak on. Not just important but urgent. Not just any urgent, this is i-have-a-meeting-with-the-president kind of urgent. i-rescheduled-a-write-up-to-post-this-write-up kind of urgent 2k+views-on-this-blog-but-straight-to-the-topic kind of urgent So, straight to the topic. How do you make someone believe that you ain't gonna leave them? That's the question. No here and there. No beating around the bush. And here's the answer:  You freakin' stay. wait, that's it? you stay and that's how you make someone believe you ain't gonna leave? really? are you kidding me? No, darling. Not kidding. If you're asking how to make someone believe that , here: reality check - you can't. There are no words and no list of actions which you would do and the other person would just be like: hey, you said this, now i believe you or ohmygod, you did this, now i believe you'll stay Wouldn't that be an ea...

Helloooooo, You . yes, hello to you too people quiet, okay? just be a listener for this one, but stay okay? i am so nervous Helloooo, You . i did it already, didn't i? gawd Uh, I.. uh, miss you, You .  Remember I said, I'll show you my ocean of love before asking you to jump in it so that you can decide if you want to love me or not? And, I told you that I'm already ready to get drowned in your ocean, whether I've a life jacket or not? I'll continue what I was saying earlier. i said, i'll continue, so just keeping my word When people read my first write-up for you, damn they were teasing me by saying "I knew you were a hopeless romantic but this just confirms it", "He's a lucky man", "Tell me who is it? It can't be possible to love someone the way you wrote there without knowing them", "You've been in love secretly all this time and you kept this a secret?" and so much more. I was so overwhelmed with the repli...

"When someone is crying, of course, the noble thing to do is to comfort them. But if someone is trying to hide their tears, it may also be noble to pretend you do not notice them." ~ Lemony Snicket I read this so long ago but it's stuck somewhere in my mind. So, let me speak on it so that I can focus on some other stucked things. This quote. What is it about? People showing and hiding their tears. People noticing and ignoring the same. Doing the good and bad. Doing the right and wrong. I don't think there's much to say on this because the quote speaks loud itself. But it does remind me of something and that is something to speak about. Ready for a lil' story? Here you go.  I was 8 years old. It was a PT period -- or say, activities period -- in which we, students, were playing something. I was running while some other kid was chasing me -- he would touch me and I lose, that was the game -- and me not being sporty at all, wasn't used to running and I fell....

Hellooooo, people. How're you? If you're okay, good; very good. If not, then you made the right choice by being here. Happy five two's. "02.02.2022" You know sometimes, I wonder that not everything you read might be relatable to you. There are some things which you relate to and there are those which you don't relate to but still understand them. not going into the topics which are neither relatable nor understandable for you I wanna show you  a few excerpts from the novel, Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty  and write why I want to show you this specific part along with them. PS: No Spoilers. "How could they admit to a stranger what went on in their marriage? The shame of it. The ugliness of their behavior. They were a fine-looking couple. People had been telling them that for years. They were admired and envied. They had all the privileges in the world. Overseas travel. A beautiful home." I wanna tell you:-  It doesn't have to be perfect if it l...

Hello people. I was learning something and something hit me hard.  and of course i'll tell you When we were kids, we used to learn English alphabets, addition, learn tables, social studies stuff and just so many things. And we used to do it so damn well.  But, when we reach college, why do we become less of a student? Why is our school version better than who we become at college, in terms of studying? Does our cramming ability deteriorates with age? illogical and not everyone crams up answers Do we all lose interest in studies after school? nope Do we all   become too interested in our social lives? don't think so 'cause most of us are becoming introverts Is it because our teachers don't pay attention to us as much as they used to, in school? um, arguable but sounds more of an excuse What happens to us after school? Why the best exams of our lives were taken by us in school time? Why can't we sit with books for as long as we used to? Why watching lectures gets rep...

Helloooooo, people. You know? I read one of my write-ups just now and damn.  oops, from the start Actually, I was having this one word conversation with a friend with whom I'm used to these wonderful conversations. At a point, I just wanted to say something to cheer him up. I didn't have anything to "say" exactly because I already knew what he would say and I wouldn't be able to debate because apparently, I agree already.  that's the thing with the people you know; you know their whole situation and you know where you both are stuck in a conversation; you say this, they say that and it all comes down to that one point where you started from So, I knew that nothing I say would really be effective right now. Afterall, there are conversations which you save for later, to get done on call and not over chat. And at this point, where the one word conversation was going to turn into complete silence -- which would suck for both of us -- I asked him if he wants to go ...

Have you come across those memes where it says, "you think breakup hurts? ever experienced hair fall?" or maybe the kind "you think breakup hurts? ever watched your best friend hanging out more with others?" This is what I wanted to remind you first today because I've a version of my own for this. Spoiler Alert: It's not a meme, so not going to be funny. You think breakup hurts? Ever experienced losing your ideal? Oh, sorry. Hello, there. I just wanted to pour things out of this vessel (yes yes heart) so bad right now that, I just started without a Hello. So, Hello.  Losing an ideal isn't a single moment just like losing some other bond. It's a journey. It starts at a point where you both are unaware. When one of you knows, that's not the actual starting point, it's that point that got noticed first. We all have someone in our mind that we know are good. A good person. Good in this particular thing. Has good point of view. Good this. Good tha...