Unwinding Heart

Hellooooo, people. I've been wanting to bleed my heart out in poetry and as usual, I've been resisting. Because dark poetries and I are a deadly combination that the universe wouldn't be able to grasp. So I resist. blame it on universe 'cause why not? Today's write up is important. Not so much for you, unless empathy means something to you. This write-up is an attempt from my side to make you understand what an empath like me feels like. Emotion researchers generally define empathy as the ability to sense other people's emotions, coupled with the ability to imagine what someone else might be thinking or feeling. Difference between sympathy and empathy? Google says, "Sympathy involves understanding from your own perspective. Empathy involves putting yourself in the other person's shoes and understanding WHY they may have these particular feelings." In my words, if someone is telling you about their heart-shattering due to some xyz reason, then if y...

Hellooooo, people. Today’s topic is difficult. Difficult is an understatement; it’s heart-wrenching. First of all, I've got a complaint to whoever makes decisions for all of us, who has the control of things for which we say "it wasn’t in our hands", who decides who lives & who dies and to whoever is responsible for what wasn’t supposed to happen; not to that specific person. My complaint can be summed up in just one question: Why is it so unfair? All of this? To the person who asked me to write upon this: here, i put your exact words you said when you asked me to write upon this topic; ‘cause these texts were so full of feelings that it rang my heart the way a hammer rings a bell. The echoes of your words are still surrounding me and the feelings in your words reached me.   A lot of people might feel that nobody can understand what they’re feeling when they hear about someone’s death. To all those people, I do. I feel you all. I’m an empath to an extreme level, of c...

"Maybe the problem with love these days is that someone says they love you, and you just wonder how long for." ~ J.L. Johnson Hellooooo, people.  I especially collected a few quotes for this write-up today. Because  gawd  today's topic is the question that has hit all of us at some point and quotes misguide you if you don't get them well. Not just quotes, any words can create chaos inside you if you don't understand them; be it the words of authors, your lover, your enemy or even a stranger. Haven't we all asked or been asked these questions? Is It Love? Or Just An Infatuation? An Attachment? Or The Beginning Of Meeting Your Soulmate? Before answering, let's just talk about why do we even question this? Why can't we just be in that love or attraction or whatever it is? Because experiences, darling. You don't want to get hurt. You just want to be cautious about where are you giving your time and if it's right to prioritize them over the things w...

The way everything is filled with feelings, I just can not get over it. Ever. Helloooooo, people. I was reading a novel to annotate it for a friend -- doing it for the first time .  (Special Hello to you; you who is going to get this annotated novel by me) I'll not get into the details of what ways I'm annotating it, because, you know, it's a secret. (yeah, surprise for you, miss) While I was writing a comment on one of the lines, a thought hit me, which became the inspiration for this write-up. The thought was, how just a few words on a paper written by one person for another become so special. How they ain't just curved lines in form of letters. They're so much more than that. Just think about it. You're given a book in which someone wrote what they felt on a particular line, underlined the lines they liked, made hearts and smileys at places and legit kept a part of themselves in the book for you to see. Like, DAMN . If you don't relate to the book stuff, ...

I really wanna start this with the F word -- the one rhymes with duck? -- because, ugh.  Lemme tell you. I was writing something – a write-up , okay? At a different place than I usually write at. Why? Well, that was the topic I was about to speak on. But. F.  That draft is gone. I hadn’t written it full. And there were a lot of chances that I wouldn’t have continued it. I was having second thoughts on posting it because it got left in middle and I, unfortunately, look for perfectionism and show you only those write-ups which I wrote without any distractions.  Even though, I wouldn’t have completed it, I’m so pissed at it being gone. It’s not like I would continue it if I get it back but. Why. Did. It. Have. To. GO. AWAY?  *takes a deep breath*  *exhales*  Okay, Hello, people.  Wait, no.  *takes a deep breath again*  *exhales*  Yes, now ready. Hellooooo, people.  I haven’t been writing for sometime but still managing to keep up with ...

Helloooooo, people. I just read all the comments of my blogs. The way you love my write-ups. i do read them at the same moment you post, i just checked all of them in one go right now I noticed that you loved the posts the most where I typed out a theory of mine. I remember being nervous about it. I remember questioning myself: would people even want to know how I see things? You all are such darlings. blows a flying kiss hey, catch I remember being worried about if it would even make sense to you and if you'd be able to understand it the way I do. But you all did and appreciated me so much on the theory as well as my writing. So, I've decided to tell you another theory of mine. Starting from scratch. Google says, theory is "an idea used to account for a situation or justify a course of action". It's originated from my mind. If you find an error in my theory, do let me know. If you agree, ain't you such a darling? Previous theory was about how I think writers ...

Hellooooo, people. Today, I've a very important topic to speak on. Not just important but urgent. Not just any urgent, this is i-have-a-meeting-with-the-president kind of urgent. i-rescheduled-a-write-up-to-post-this-write-up kind of urgent 2k+views-on-this-blog-but-straight-to-the-topic kind of urgent So, straight to the topic. How do you make someone believe that you ain't gonna leave them? That's the question. No here and there. No beating around the bush. And here's the answer:  You freakin' stay. wait, that's it? you stay and that's how you make someone believe you ain't gonna leave? really? are you kidding me? No, darling. Not kidding. If you're asking how to make someone believe that , here: reality check - you can't. There are no words and no list of actions which you would do and the other person would just be like: hey, you said this, now i believe you or ohmygod, you did this, now i believe you'll stay Wouldn't that be an ea...